DECLUTTERING WITH CHILDREN

One of the biggest sources of frustration when it comes to keeping a family home clean and tidy is… children. Yes, we love them! And, no, we don’t want to impede their creativity or passion for their projects, or to throw out those special projects. It’s easy to get caught up in holding onto them ‘just in case’ we want to look back with nostalgia one day. But is that what you really want? Think about what you are really trying to hold onto.

Edit emotions

So much of what holds us back when it comes to the clutter in our home are our emotions. We make objects mean so much. And that can be a good thing, at times. It’s important to have a home that is filled with pieces that we love and are meaningful. But, quite simply, we can’t hold onto everything. At some point we have to edit our collections. We have to decide what keep and what we choose to let go. And it’s not always easy.

Get clarity

When clearing out children’s rooms, be clear on what you value and what you want your life to look like. Take the time to visualise how you want your home to look and feel. Check your children’s rooms against the goals you have for your home and life. Assessing your spaces helps you to get clear on what improvements you need to make, and also allows you to have focus as you declutter your collections.

Embrace the responsibility

When it comes to decluttering with children, remember that they see you. Children are great mimics and model the behaviour of those around them. Take a look at what you’re modelling. Are you tidying up after yourself? What does your bedroom look like? Do you prepare ahead of time? Or are you always in a rush and flap? Make sure that you are setting a good example for your children. They notice everything!

Daily rhythms

Children thrive on rhythms. They feel safe and secure when they know what to expect and what is expected of them. And when there is a consistent rhythm, they are able to move in accordance with it almost without thinking. It becomes second nature. Systems, processes, routines and standards are therefore imperative. In this type of environment, everyone thrives. We don’t need to shout or get frustrated. We just need to create clear systems and rhythms so that everyone can thrive.

Storage

When designing kids' bedrooms, prioritise bedroom storage ideas that will grow with them. This includes wardrobes with adjustable shelving and hanging spaces, drawer space beneath the bed, plenty of shelving, and toy storage ideas. When they are young, shelving can host toys and games. As kids grow older, shelvecan make way for books, schoolwork and gaming equipment. Other low level storage such as open pigeon holes filled with baskets work well in a child’s room, keeping things tidy, safe and accessible.